THE SETTLED SELF JOURNAL
Reflections on becoming, relating, and being human.
Personal perspectives on how we adapt, protect ourselves, and become who we are in a world of others, who are trying to do the same. Written by a human. Offered with curiosity and respect for the ways we become ourselves.
Where’d I Go? Perspectives on Anxious Attachment
When our centre of gravity rests in other people, noticing can gradually become watching. A relational exploration of anxious attachment, boundaries, and finding our own ground while remaining connected.
So Close, Yet So Far: Perspectives on Avoidant Attachment.
Love isn’t absent in avoidant attachment. It may be constrained by what closeness once demanded. An exploration of self-sufficiency, intimacy and the possibility of remaining ourselves in relationship.
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