THE SETTLED SELF JOURNAL
Reflections on becoming, relating, and being human.
Personal perspectives on how we adapt, protect ourselves, and become who we are in a world of others, who are trying to do the same. Written by a human. Offered with curiosity and respect for the ways we become ourselves.
How Do We Become Ourselves in Relationship?
Long before words, we begin becoming ourselves through relationship. A reflection on attachment, adaptation and how our encounters with others shape the ways we experience ourselves.
Love, Fear, and the Space Between: Perspectives on Disorganised Attachment
Disorganised attachment isn’t the worst attachment style. It reflects an impossible bind in which longing for connection and needing protection can exist at the same time.
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